The Little Pink Clubhouse

January 31, 2008

EPU, meet Pattie. Pattie, meet EPU.

Filed under: Local news, Uncategorized — strategerie @ 3:53 pm

I had to include this, for obvious reasons…

Okay.

My pal EPU has insinuated that natives of the Pacific Northwest are just a bunch of candy asses that can’t drive in ice or snow. Being the New York native he is, he’s convinced that he’d have no problem whatsoever with the steepest hills outside of San Francisco, black ice and various and sundry other issues surrounding driving here when it’s icy or there’s snow on the ground.

Of course, I am offering the opposing viewpoint. My girlfriend Pattie, a lovely and talented native of Philly, was here on business last year during one of our increasingly frequent ice storms. She was a little surprised at the difficulty of the whole getting-around thing. She travels everywhere, so one would think a little ice wouldn’t stop her, huh?

I can hardly wait to read the comments. Let’s have a fair fight! No wagering, no hair-pulling, and we’ll see how this turns out!

-S

A nice article about Eli Manning

Filed under: football — strategerie @ 8:34 am

In keeping with The Little Pink Clubhouse’s “Anybody but the Patriots” motto, I present the following article about Eli Manning, who will surely wipe the turf with Mr. Brady on Sunday afternoon.

We can all hope, can’t we?

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/seahawks/2004153163_super30.html

Manning grew up in the very long shadow cast by his celebrated father and high-achieving brothers. At the same time, he had the luxury of living a life more akin to an only child starting in the eighth grade, when Peyton left for college.

“We had Eli kind of alone for five years,” Archie said.

It was during high school, Manning said, that he grew especially close to his mother. With Archie away part of most weeks, Manning and Olivia began a ritual of eating dinner out once a week, just the two of them. They had a regular rotation of restaurants: Casamentos for oyster poor boys; Figaro’s for pizza; Joey K’s for creole cooking and catfish.

Between mouthfuls, Manning and his mother shared tidbits of their lives. She grew up in Mississippi and met Archie at Ole Miss, where he was the star quarterback and she was a cheerleader and homecoming queen.

“I got to know more about her,” he said. “She told stories about growing up or about college.” Freed from having to compete with his brothers to be heard, Manning also found his voice. “It kind of helped me get my stories out,” he said.

Awww. Who can resist a guy that really loves his mom?

In the meantime, I’m giving the Giants the extra-special pink mojo over the next few days. C’mon, guys. You can do this!

-S

January 30, 2008

Get well soon, Dave Grohl

Filed under: minor annoyances of everyday life — strategerie @ 2:38 pm

Okay, so I love the Foo Fighters. It seems Mr. Grohl has the flu, and had to cancel two shows as a result. According to the radio announcer I was just listening to, he said he didn’t want to give anything less than his best. In the meantime, be sure and go to http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6DKXGpMGY_o (No embedding. Bummer!) and listen to one of my faves, “Best of You”.

-S

John Edwards drops out of the presidential race

Filed under: politics, rants — strategerie @ 9:12 am

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/story/2008/01/30/ST2008013001407.html

John Edwards will end his presidential bid today, a source close to his campaign confirmed, effectively narrowing the Democratic field to two contenders less than a week before the Super Tuesday round of primaries.

 Ihazasad.jpg picture by thelittlepinkclubhouse

lolcat courtesy of www.icanhascheezburger.com

-S

January 29, 2008

The moral of the story: Don’t barge in on others’ phone calls…

Filed under: Local news — strategerie @ 3:55 pm

 cell_phone.jpg picture by thelittlepinkclubhouse

Okay, this made me laugh!

http://www.boston.com/news/politics/politicalintelligence/2008/01/an_unexpected_c.html

It’s a time-worn president’s trick: walk up to a congressman chatting on the phone and send your regards to the astonished person on the other end of the line, charming the listener with your regular-guy credentials.

That’s what President Bush did Monday night at the State of the Union address, when he approached Newton Democrat Barney Frank, who was talking on his cell phone in the House Speaker’s lobby before Bush’s speech.

What Bush didn’t know was that the congressman was talking to his boyfriend.

What? They let gay people into the SOTU? What’s next?

“I considered telling [the president] I wouldn’t marry him,” Frank said, “but then I thought, ‘Nah.’ ”

Mr. Frank, I wouldn’t marry him, either.

-S

What’s happened to John Edwards?

Filed under: politics, rants — strategerie @ 12:54 pm

I read the following this morning. I think it’s the best explanation of why I continue to support Edwards I’ve seen.

All thanks to the author, Plaid Adder, for allowing me to reprint her comments here.

-S

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=132&topic_id=4265928&mesg_id=4265928

I have not been around the primaries much because, as I said in my last post here, I find the whole thing depressing. I am particularly annoyed by the minute attention being paid by the media to the Clinton and Obama campaigns’ interactions, and who said what about whom and who needs to apologize. If these people think that by dissecting a comment Bill Clinton made about Jesse Jackson for evidence of possible racial bias they are in any way furthering the cause of racial equality, they are more deluded than I thought they were. Racial inequality is perpetuated in this country by a number of bedrock economic injustices that neither Obama nor Clinton is talking about addressing, and although it would be nice if we could train everyone to be polite to each other, that by itself will never eradicate racial inequality.

Strangely, the only candidate coming at all close to addressing these issues is John Edwards–because he’s taking on class, and not just race or gender. But since the MSM is really giving him no air time whatsoever, and since I no longer have the time to go digging through LBN like I used to, I really don’t know too much about the specifics he’s proposing. But let me tell you what, from my point of view, is really wrong with this country, the electorate, and in particular this primary race:

We can talk about race, we can talk about gender. But in general, as a society, we cannot talk about money or class. We do not have the vocabulary, the concepts, or–and here I’m talking about the Democratic party elite and their two front-runners–the courage.

The first problem you encounter when you try to talk about class is that most of the people you try to talk to will tell you it doesn’t exist–at least not in America. The second problem is that to the extent that people know and use the term “class,” it is to describe themselves as “middle class.” If you listen to Americans on the subject you would get the idea that they live in a country that’s 100% middle class, with no upper or lower. All politicians ever talk about is doing things for the middle class. The closest anyone ever gets to uttering the words “working class” is “working families,” as if the work “worker” is so scary it cannot be uttered unless it is immediately domesticated by the word “family.” And of course a lot of things are actually done to benefit the rich; but no politician ever admits in public that they work for “the rich.” All this capital-gains stuff somehow benefits “the middle class,” even though large chunks of “the middle class” have never come near a stock portfolio.

But class divisions in this country are deep, and they are harder to bridge than any other kind. Their causes are not obvious and their remedies are neither clear nor easy. But I’ll tell you, when you start raising a kid for the first time, you start to notice these things a lot more.

It starts before birth, really–not just in terms of prenatal medical care, which of course the un- or under-insured often cannot afford, but basic things like prenatal nutrition. It’s no good telling people what they have to eat to help their babies develop if they can’t afford it or can’t get to a store that sells it. Then once the baby’s born, the divisions deepen. The American medical establishment–finally–agrees that breastfeeding is better for infants under 6 months than feeding them on formula. (Outside of America, it’s usually recommended to breastfeed exclusively for a year, but that’s a rant I’m not going into right now.) It is also far cheaper. And yet, the way things are now, breastfeeding is a realistic option mainly for the children of women who don’t work outside the home, or women who work in the professions. My partner, for instance, took her 12 weeks of FMLA leave, and thereafter took her $350 breastpump to work where she pumped 3 times a day in the privacy of her own office which has a door that closes. She still only made it through 5 months. Most working-class women cannot afford to take the 12 weeks of *unpaid* leave guaranteed by the FMLA; they’ll maybe have two weeks right after the delivery and then they’re back on the job, or more likely the jobs, since more and more working-class women are having to work two or three jobs. That’s not long enough to establish breastfeeding in the first place; and if you are working, say, as cook at Burger King or a housekeeper in an office building, where are you going to pump? No, you’re probably going to wind up having to switch to formula, which will cost you an arm and a leg. So, because you do not work the kind of job that pays well enough to allow you to take a real maternity leave, you *also* get stuck paying more for baby food than your better-off fellow-working women do. And this is how the poor get poorer; and it’s also why, in our neighborhood, all the drug stores that sell infant formula put it in locked cases. Because otherwise, people steal it. And really, I cannot blame them.

Anyway. So even before these kids can walk or talk they are at a disadvantage; and then we get to the school system. With all the talk about ‘education reform,’ I don’t know why we can’t get anyone to revisit the way we fund our public schools, which guarantees that the more your kids *need* a good education, the less likely they are to have it. No, I take it back, I do know why; it’s because ever since the Reagan revolution, “education reform” has really been about breaking public education rather than fixing it. School vouchers and school choice siphoned off the kids of privileged families to special magnet schools or to parochial schools while everyone else was left to flounder in the struggling public schools. Then came the push for “standards” to the exclusion of everything else, with the result that public school kids were not so much educated as trained to take exams; then on top of that came No Child Left Behind, which imposed an unholy bureaucratic burden on schools while also enabling the withdrawal of money from schools that were already in trouble, thus ensuring that they would never recover. And why? Because providing anything good free of charge to the public at large in equal measure is obnoxious to conservative ideology; but also because families in the middle and upper classes want to preserve economic privilege for their own kids and not to share it with everyone else. This dovetails with racism, which is an unacknowledged motivation for a lot of white parents who don’t want their kids in the (now integrated, at least on paper) public school system; and the result is that when the public system fails, it fails primarily for minority students. At least in Chicago, most of the white students in the public system are concentrated in the magnet schools, which are always going to make out all right.

Anyway. These basic injustices, and the divisions that grow out of them, are silently accepted and smoothed over by our entire political establishment and by the mainstream media. As Americans, we are discouraged from paying attention to class, from understanding it, or from listening to anyone who wants to talk about it. The last time class consciousness was really part of the American experience was in the 1930s and 1940s. The Cold War killed that, and now we’re left with identity politics. Talking about race without talking about class limits the kind of change we can contemplate–let alone actually accomplishing it–just as talking about class without talking about race would.

John Edwards is the only candidate I’ve sent money to because he’s the only candidate who seems to me to have any understanding of class or how it connects to our society’s other problems. Sure, he’s personally rich; but so are all prominent politicians. And I was really hoping he would win South Carolina; but he hasn’t. I will hold out hope for Super Tuesday; but I don’t think it’s realistic. By all means I encourage all the Edwardsians to continue standing by him to the bitter end; when it’s my turn, I intend to vote for him. But I do not think he is going to win.

That is partly, certainly, because the media simply refuses to cover his campaign; and I don’t think that’s accidental, or that it can be attributed purely to the horse-race frenzy generated by the Clinton/Obama back and forthing. But there is also the problem that Edwards, charismatic speaker that he is, is speaking a language that this generation of Americans has forgotten, and is only going to pick up again slowly and painfully. Ultimately, he is promising a remedy for a disease that most Americans do not believe exists in this country. The fact that they are manifestly wrong about that doesn’t necessarily mean that Edwards is bound to win through in the end. The process of getting America ready to vote for a president who wants to do something about *economic* inequality is going to take much longer than this election cycle.

Discussing the primaries with me a couple months ago, my mother’s response to my mention of John Edwards was, “Did you see that video of him getting his hair done?” I am afraid I kind of went ballistic. The substance of my response, minus the ranting, was, “That is an unbelievably stupid reason for making a decision about who you want as President of the United States.” But then we live in the country of stupid reasons that produce stupid decisions. Nevertheless, the media picture of Edwards has now broadened somewhat, at least judging by my mother, who now says she doesn’t like Edwards because he promotes “class warfare” and is “divisive.” So, either he’s a featherweight pretty boy who cares only for his blow-dried coif, or he’s a dangerous radical menace inciting the dispossessed to rise up in revolution. Because the only two modes in which our media can deal with someone talking about class are trivialization and demonization.

Ah well,

The Plaid Adder

January 28, 2008

You gotta’ fight for your right to paaaaartaaaaaayyyyyy

Filed under: writing — strategerie @ 6:10 pm

An appropriate song for a Monday, wouldn’t you agree? 

Of course, there’s a story here. Every time I hear this song, I think about my niece, Brittany, and the CD shopping trip. She’s a big girl now (22!), but when she was younger, we went off to the mall to get some music. She grabbed a Beastie Boys CD out of the rack, and gave me an expectant look — “aren’t you shocked?” Little did she know that I graduated from high school in the latter 70’s, the days of Led Zeppelin. They could make anything sound evil and sexy at the same time! 

Let’s face it, the teens of today are just deprived, aren’t they?

-S

It’s a winter wonderland

Filed under: Local news — strategerie @ 11:19 am

P1280013.jpg picture by thelittlepinkclubhouse 

Photo: The Dauphin

The view from our driveway at six a.m. this morning

We had a little snowstorm overnight and most of this morning. The snow coats everything in white, newscasters go wall-to-wall “WINTER STORM 2008!”, and if you don’t have to drive anywhere, things are ducky.

I must explain to people who live in other parts of the country what it’s like when we get snow. The transplants from the Midwest and the East Coast mock us until they get behind the wheel. After all, the Seattle area features many, many hills. Our hometown is built into the side of a hill, and 350 feet above sea level. It’s not just the snow, it’s the black ice.

People here don’t get a lot of practice driving in snow because of the climate. There are also many who believe that driving an SUV confers instant immortality. As a result, the natives typically do not even stir from the house when there’s more than a dusting of snow. As I have explained to The Dauphin more than once, “Is it worth $500?” Most of the time, that would be a big, fat “NO.”

The Dauphin will be testing the limits of our car insurance deductible later this morning. He must drive to the office. The weather people are predicting that our area will receive another four inches of the white stuff tonight.

In the meantime, I hope to get some photos of the fun and frolic involved in several inches of powder.

-S

January 27, 2008

What’s your “bucket list”?

Filed under: moments of grace — strategerie @ 11:05 am

 CliffsofMohar.jpg picture by thelittlepinkclubhouse

Photo: http://www.naturetrek.co.uk/wildlife-holidays-in-europe/country.asp?ID=22 

Ireland’s Cliffs of Mohar

Most of those reading have heard of the movie “The Bucket List”, in which two men decide to make a list of the things they’d like to do before they die, and set about doing them. I was just reading an article about the following website in this morning’s paper. What are the things you’d like to see or do in your life? Do you have a list?

http://www.43things.com/

I bought a book several years ago called “The Wish List”. The author listed hundreds and hundreds of goals any of us might choose to shoot for in our lives — everything from white-water rafting, to walking on the Great Wall of China, to winning an Academy Award. All the goals had handy little boxes next to them for checking. I’ve never checked anything in the book, because I wasn’t sure I wanted anything left behind for someone else to read and say later, “Strategerie wanted to do THAT? Was she NUTS?”

The best part about 43things, at least to me, is that you can be as public or private as you wish. The other nice thing is that you can get help or positive reinforcement to achieve your goals. I just left a note for someone who wants to go to a drive-in movie, for instance. My parents used to take us often when I was a kid, and The Dauphin and I went again a couple of years ago with a bunch of our friends. It was every bit as fun as I remembered.

The other interesting part for me was the idea that the goals are as different as every person that makes them. I wonder to myself what it takes the other people there to focus on those goals and check them off their lists, a little at a time. It can be scary to go after a goal, especially a lofty one. There’s that fear in all of us that says, “You’re joking, right?” It’s the whole idea that there can be more than what we have now. Achieving that experience or thing may lead to other changes in our lives. What will that be like?

My biggest goal was to write a book. After telling myself (and multiple other people) I wanted to write a book, I was too scared to embark on the goal. The only way I finally did it was to sign up for www.nanowrimo.com, National Novel Writing Month. The moment I achieved the goal of finishing that book will stick with me for the rest of my life. I started writing another book three days before I ”won” NaNoWriMo that ended up being my first single title contemporary romance. I’ve finished other manuscripts since, and there is nothing that rivals the feeling, at least for me: I did it.

We don’t achieve anything we don’t plan for, because life is too short to leave to chance. What’s your list? Do you check items off as you achieve them? Do you tell others you did it, or is it something you smile about and tell nobody else? In the interest of being accountable, I’ll share five of my “list”.

  1. I’d like to go to Ireland. I’d specifically like to go to the Literary Pub Crawl in Dublin.
  2. I’d like to rollerskate (well, nowadays it’s “rollerblade”) around Seattle’s Green Lake.
  3. I’d like to win Romance Writers of America’s Golden Heart.
  4. I’d like to see the Ghiberti “Gates of Paradise” exhibit at Seattle Art Museum.
  5. I’d like to go to a Seahawks game at Qwest Field with The Dauphin. (It’s tough to get tickets. This might take some doing!)

There are so many other things I want to do in my life, but right now, those five pop out at me as things I can work towards. What’s on your list?

-S

January 26, 2008

A dubious anniversary: Ten years ago today, Bill Clinton said, “I did not have sexual relations with that woman.”

Filed under: politics, rants — strategerie @ 9:24 pm

To say that it’s a little jarring that ten years have gone by is an understatement. Where did the time go?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_did_not_have_sexual_relations_with_that_woman

Clinton uttered the quote during a January 26, 1998, White House press conference when allegations were running high regarding an alleged sexual relationship between himself and Monica Lewinsky, a White House intern. At the conclusion of the press conference, Clinton said:

Now, I have to go back to work on my State of the Union speech. And I worked on it until pretty late last night. But I want to say one thing to the American people. I want you to listen to me. I’m going to say this again: I did not have sexual relations with that woman, Miss Lewinsky. I never told anybody to lie, not a single time; never. These allegations are false. And I need to go back to work for the American people. Thank you.

You know, I wasn’t mad about what happened between Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky. It was between them and Mrs. Clinton. What I WAS mad about, and continue to be a bit unhappy with, was Bill Clinton’s belief that he could just deny, deny, deny, and nobody would ever find out.

As far as Monica Lewinsky is concerned, I can’t even imagine making a mistake at age 21 that would follow me for the rest of my life.

It’s interesting to note that a consensual sexual act between two adults is considered an impeachable offense, (he committed perjury, didn’t he? Perjury isn’t a crime anymore, is it?) but starting a war based on lies and perpetuating that war doesn’t rise to an impeachable offense. Interesting, isn’t it?

-S

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